It is a common belief among women that in order to have fun and be flirty, alcohol is the answer. Ladies, I can tell you right now: that is not that case!
Alcohol is actually the enemy. Yes, a few drinks are fine with your friends, but as you get older, having a few drinks just to get tipsy, perhaps even drunk, is not what true gentlemen want. It looks sloppy, and can often lead to bad things. Guys these days aren’t interested in the girl they take home from the bar. They are interested in the girl they meet at the gym who leads a healthy and positive lifestyle.