Last year when I confounded my wife by being more emotional than usual in that odd time between Rutgers Football and baseball season, she knew drastic action needed to be taken. She knows that my frustration was warranted in the 2015 Rutgers football finale against Maryland and virtually any time the Mets have to figure out how to deal with an injured player. But in February even before March Madness? Her solution was for me to read the 90s best seller, “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.” I recommend the book, but I want to take literally just one page out of it.