39-year-old Stoudemire says Kyrie created a problem by not expressing any regret over the situation ... and is giving the NBA and commissioner Adam Silver no choice but to look into it.
"I think something has to happen, intensive conversations with the commissioner about what he’s doing and what his plans are as a basketball player."
As for whether Kyrie should be suspended for over the whole ordeal, Amar'e -- who previously served as an assistant for the Nets -- is on the fence.
"I mean, Kyrie’s a guy who’s trying to find himself," he added.