If you have ever seen the movie Love Jones then you know that romance "is about the possibility of thing" as main character Darius Lovehall famously declares. If you haven't seen the movie then you have no business reading a Pelicans blog; go watch the movie, trust me you'll be far more entertained. What Lovehall was trying to say was that in many ways the best part of a new romance is not what is, but what might be. The possibilities are endless before the banality of everyday life creeps in and exposes our love interest for what they are, warts just as pronounced as all the things you love.