Can we change who we are? I don't think so. I've been making the same mistakes in relationships since I started having intimate relationships. I'm not good at it and I'm not getting any better. I'm at a point right now, where I've made some awful decisions that have put some of my relationships, intimate or otherwise, in jeopardy. I spend the night tossing and turning in bed, thoughts rushing around this little brain of mine, trying to take back some of the things I've done or said and then at about 4 am every night I vow to make changes for the better in the future.