Cindy Gruden believes her husband of 26 years has evolved from the days when he was a young assistant coach who had to be forced by his boss to leave work and take his wife out to dinner.
But she still knows "the look" that can signal his exasperation. That was a Jon Gruden specialty long before a player nicknamed him after the murderous movie doll "Chucky" when he was a first-year coach of the Raiders in 1998.
Whether it be coaching, broadcasting or going out on a family outing, Gruden is going places. Waiting is not part of the plan.