It can be bittersweet to watch an ex live out their dreams. If you cared about them as people, you will likely be happy that you have seen their ascension. But, depending on how the relationship was left, it may hurt to not be beside them anymore. Or worse, to feel like you contributed to the accomplishment of their goal, without being able to enjoy the light that it will bring. For Charlotte Hornets fans, there is no bitterness in the sweet feeling of watching Cody Zeller and Caleb Martin play (and play well) in the NBA finals.