Dear Ann Cannon: • My 20-year-old grandson is involved in his first serious relationship. The young woman is fairly obnoxious, lacking in any social graces, and has a painful lack of self-awareness. My large extended family does their best to tolerate her and are polite whenever we all get together. However, she showed up at Easter dinner in a blouse that was cut down to her navel with most of both breasts exposed. When she first arrived, I thought she was having some kind of wardrobe malfunction, but quickly realized she meant to dress like that.
My preteen and adolescent grandsons were sneaking glances all day while the girls in the family were all laughing at her.