Sometimes one’s great strength is also a big weakness. For example, you could value someone in a relationship because they’re calm, slow to anger, don’t fly off the handle over little things – then get frustrated with them because they’re not “passionate.” Someone can be careful and organized and detail-oriented, an excellent accountant or banker – and annoyingly stiff & “unspontaneous.” Hall of Fame Maryland men’s basketball coach Gary Williams valued effort and intensity above all else in his players – and often they would be wound so tight and pressing so hard that their offensive skills went to hell; they would hurry and take panic shots.