Many singles meet their dates on the Internet. I prefer to meet men on the sidewalk. Parking lots, bleachers, In-N-Outs or comedy clubs work too. Maybe I've read too much metaphysics or watched too much OWN, but I believe that I can manifest the right mate by becoming completely clear about the person I am meant to be and the man who should become my mate.
So, one and a half years after separating from my husband of 17 years and the father of my two kids, I made a list of the qualities I desired in a man — passionate about his work, volunteer in the community, a father or stepfather, athletic, funny, does not use drugs or drink excessively, and does not smoke.